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Preparing for Fall Semester
The fall semester is approaching. You might feel excited, anxious, relieved, or dreading it - possibly all at once. Let's talk about preparing yourself mentally and emotionally, not just logistically. The Return Transition Going back to school is a major transition, even if you've done it before: New environment (or returning to a familiar one after months away) New schedule and demands Different relationships and social dynamics Identity shift back to "student" Loss of summe
Debby Couture
Aug 34 min read


Mid-Summer Checkin
We're halfway through summer. How are you actually doing? Not how you think you should be doing, or how you look like you're doing on social media, or how you wish you were doing. How are you actually doing? The Mid-Summer Slump Many students hit a rough patch in July: Initial summer excitement has worn off You're settling into reality vs. expectations Fall semester still feels far away (no end point motivation yet) Summer might not be going how you imagined Loneliness or bo
Debby Couture
Jul 13 min read


Summer Adjustment & Finding Your Rythm
The semester's over, and you might be expecting to feel relieved, relaxed, or excited about summer. But if you're feeling... off, unsettled, or even more anxious than during the semester, you're not alone. The Summer Adjustment Challenge Summer brings a major transition that we don't talk about enough: Sudden change from structured routine to unstructured time Different environment (home, new city, staying on campus) Shift in identity (less "student," more... what?) Different
Debby Couture
Jun 13 min read


Why summer session can feel lonely
Every May, I hear some version of the same thing from students who have just finished the semester: I have friends. I'm texting everyone. But I feel so alone.
Debby Couture
May 212 min read


Why you feel behind after graduation (even when you're not)
Every May, social media becomes a wall of graduation announcements. If you don't have a clear next step, scrolling through that feed can feel like arriving late to a party you didn't know was happening.
Debby Couture
May 182 min read


Finals & Summer Planning
We're in the final stretch. Finals week (or weeks) brings peak stress, but it also brings the promise of rest on the other side. Let's get you through this. Finals Week Mental Health Reality Finals create conditions that are objectively bad for mental health: Sleep deprivation Sustained high stress Social isolation (studying alone) Poor nutrition Lack of physical activity High-stakes evaluation Everything is coming due at once Your Finals Mental Health Plan Sleep Non-Negotiab
Debby Couture
May 43 min read


Mid-Semester Planning
April is tough. Spring break is over, summer still feels far away, and the semester workload is peaking. Many students hit a wall this month. Let's talk about getting through it. The April Mental Health Slump This month often brings: Exhaustion (you've been going hard for months) Decreased motivation ("I just can't care about this anymore") Increased anxiety about final projects/exams piling up Seasonal depression lifting, but leaving you aware of how depleted you are Seniori
Debby Couture
Apr 13 min read


Midterms & Spring Break Reset
March typically brings two distinct challenges: midterm intensity followed by spring break. Let's talk about managing both. The Midterm Mental Health Challenge Midterms create a perfect storm for mental health struggles: Multiple exams/projects in a short window Sleep deprivation Increased caffeine/decreased nutrition Less time for self-care, exercise, or social connection Pressure to perform This combination makes anxiety and stress spike, even for students who've been manag
Debby Couture
Mar 22 min read


Managing Stress Before It Builds
February can feel deceptively calm; you're settled into classes, midterms are still a few weeks away, and the semester feels manageable. This makes it the perfect time to build stress management skills before you need them urgently. The Stress Build-Up Pattern Many students experience a predictable pattern: Early semester: "I've got this, everything feels manageable." Mid-semester: "Things are getting busy, but I can handle it." Late semester: "I'm completely overwhelmed and
Debby Couture
Feb 22 min read


Fresh Start & Spring Semester Transitions
Whether you're returning from winter break or starting your first spring semester, January brings a unique opportunity for a fresh start. The Post-Break Transition Coming back to campus after being home can stir up mixed feelings. You might feel: Relieved to return to independence and your college routine Anxious about upcoming coursework and responsibilities Sad about leaving family or missing the comfort of home Motivated and energized by the new semester All of the above a
Debby Couture
Dec 31, 20252 min read


Moving Beyond Survival Mode: A Framework for College Well-Being
I talk with college students every day who say they feel like they're barely keeping their heads above water. Maybe you know this feeling too - that sense of always being behind, never quite catching up, even when you're doing everything you're "supposed" to do. Here's what I've noticed in my years of working with students: this constant state of overwhelm isn't a personal failing. It's often the result of approaching college without the right tools and frameworks to support
Debby Couture
Nov 12, 20253 min read


Is "College Ready" Enough?
We talk a lot about college readiness in terms of academics—GPAs, test scores, AP courses. But research shows that most college students...
Debby Couture
Oct 1, 20252 min read


Mental Health Support for College Students: A Powerful Question
College is a time of incredible growth, opportunity, and... let's be honest, overwhelming challenges. Between academic pressure, social...
Debby Couture
Sep 25, 20254 min read


The Hidden Epidemic: Loneliness in College
The image of college life is often of a busy campus and vibrant social scene. But the reality is that many students experience...
Debby Couture
Sep 12, 20243 min read


College and the Pressure to Succeed
College can be a high-pressure environment for many students. Between exams, projects, and the ever-present question of "What am I even...
Debby Couture
May 13, 20242 min read


College: Beyond Books and Academics
College is a time for intellectual growth, new friendships, and exciting possibilities. But let's be honest, it's also a whirlwind of...
Debby Couture
Feb 13, 20243 min read


Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: Embracing the Belief That "You Belong"
During a recent moment of inspiration, I found myself listening to Stanford’s convocation speeches. As I listened to each speaker's...
Debby Couture
Oct 17, 20232 min read


Breaking the Stigma: Finding Mental Health Support on Campus
In the journey through college, we all
Debby Couture
Sep 19, 20232 min read
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