Finals & Summer Planning
- Debby Couture
- May 4
- 3 min read
We're in the final stretch. Finals week (or weeks) brings peak stress, but it also brings the promise of rest on the other side. Let's get you through this.
Finals Week Mental Health Reality
Finals create conditions that are objectively bad for mental health:
Sleep deprivation
Sustained high stress
Social isolation (studying alone)
Poor nutrition
Lack of physical activity
High-stakes evaluation
Everything is coming due at once
Your Finals Mental Health Plan
Sleep Non-Negotiable: All-nighters are counterproductive. Sleep-deprived brains can't think clearly, retain information, or regulate emotions. Minimum 5-6 hours, ideally 7.
If you're tempted to pull an all-nighter:
Start studying earlier (even if imperfect) tomorrow
Ask for an extension if needed
Accept "good enough" rather than "perfect but sleep-deprived."
Basic Physical Needs:
Eat something every 4-5 hours (even if simple)
Drink water (dehydration worsens anxiety)
Move your body, even briefly
Get outside for 10 minutes
Studying Strategies That Protect Mental Health:
50-minute work blocks with 10-minute breaks
Switch subjects or tasks when you hit a wall
Study with others sometimes (reduces isolation)
Stop studying 1-2 hours before bed (your brain needs transition time)
Managing Anxiety During Exams:
Before:
Arrive early enough to settle, but not so earlythat you spiral
Avoid anxious classmates discussing material
Do a brief grounding exercise
During:
If panic hits, pause for 30 seconds of slow breathing
Start with easier questions to build confidence
Remember: no single exam defines your worth
After:
Don't debrief immediately with peers (usually increases anxiety)
Do something calming before the next exam
If it went poorly, remember: you can address it later
Crisis Management
If you're genuinely unable to function due to anxiety, depression, or other mental health concerns:
Immediate:
Campus counseling crisis line
National Crisis Text Line (text HOME to 741741)
Call 988 for Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Go to the ER if you're in danger
For exam accommodations:
Contact disability services ASAP
Reach out to professors about the circumstances
Explore incomplete or withdrawal options if necessary
Taking care of your mental health is more important than any exam.
Post-Finals Emotional Crash
Many students experience an emotional crash after finals:
Delayed processing of stress
Sudden absence of adrenaline that was keeping you going
Exhaustion catching up
Anxiety about grades or summer plans
This is normal. Give yourself a few days to recover before expecting to feel okay.
Summer Transition Feelings
Summer brings mixed emotions depending on your situation:
Going Home:
Relief vs. loss of independence
Family dynamics to navigate
Friends from home in different life stages
Uncertainty about fitting back in
Staying for Summer:
Classes, work, or research
A quieter campus can feel lonely
Different rhythm of the school year
Graduating:
Excitement mixed with anxiety about what's next
Grief about endings
Identity shift from being a student
Job/life uncertainty
All of these feelings are valid.
Planning Summer Mental Health
Don't wait until you're struggling to think about summer support:
Will you have access to a therapist?
What's your support system?
How will you maintain routines?
What warning signs should you watch for?
If you need continued coaching support over the summer, let me know, and we can plan.
One More Push
You're so close. These next few weeks are hard, but you've gotten through hard things before. Take care of yourself, ask for help when you need it, and remember: you are more than your grades.
You've got this, Debby ----
Debby Couture, M.A., CMHC
Mental Health Coach & College Student Success Coach | collegemindspodcast@gmail.com | https://www.collegemindspodcast.com/





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